Hello Everyone! I stumbled upon another question on Quora. Are you surprised!? No, I know you are not-LOL! :P Well, buckle up for this messy ride! I did take some time to analyze the question. My knee jerk opinion is that this person is super emotionally charged. So emotionally charged, the other person is concerned for their welfare and safety. If that is the case, it is not a one time hard luck story. That is a deep dive into a constant saga of misery and/or deep emotions. The person is trapped in their head and existing in a constant realm of worst case scenarios. I find people who get worked up to the point where others fear their safety, that can be a form of manipulation. Through their emotions, they get attention and put others on high alert. No one is responsible for the welfare of a person but themselves. Why make it a concern for others? I believe that people thrive off of the attention, gaining sympathy, and getting over financially via a good heart who takes

Hello Everyone! I hope you all are enjoying your Memorial Day Weekend here in the United States!?! For anyone unfamiliar, the population of the United States celebrates Memorial Day Weekend that is usually the last Monday in May. The intention of Memorial Day is to honor the men and women who have serve, both past and present, in the military of our armed forces. We have the Army, Marines, Navy, Coast Guard, and the Air Force. Memorial Day became a holiday back in 1971 via an act in Congress. Memorial Day was previously known as Decoration Day. Three years after the Civil War ended, on May 5, 1868, the head of an organization of Union veterans — the Grand Army of the Republic (GAR) — established Decoration Day as a time for the nation to decorate the graves of the war dead with flowers. Maj. Gen. John A. Logan declared that Decoration Day should be observed on May 30. It is believed that date was chosen because flowers would be in bloom all over the country. Now you know the his

Hello Everyone! I exchange tweets here and there with other podcasts on Twitter. I try to check out people's work. Especially if they try out my work. A guy who I find humorous, so far in my exploration, is Glen from #NuzzleHouse. Since I am a dirty minded lady, here is the first podcast episode I chose to peep. It is 'Confessions of the Orgasm Fairy' By Sarina Dorie on Spotify. I am currently listening to A 'Country Doctor' By Franz Kafka. A lady on Twitter suggested for me to check it out. I checked out his website. Here is the summary I pulled from his website. "We offer you current book reviews and read the classics in the spirit of a man recording in his bathroom". Here is his website for reference: https://nuzzlehouse.com/ Almost like two ships passing in the night, Nuzzle House & Verbally Disastrous checked each other's content out. Here is both my brief review and the Nuzzle House nod on Twitter: My dirty mind spotted th

 Hello Everyone! I have been editing podcast Episode #17: Part A & Episode #18: Part B: Favorite Childhood Memories.  I had on two special guests Kyle & House from Second Shift Radio on Tune In.  I learned, while talking to them, that they have a new project called On Da Block Radio Station on Radio.co.  I found their radio page and it is here for your reference: https://www.ondablockradiostation.com/ I just released both parts A & B onto YouTube.  Here are the links to the two podcast episodes on Favorite Childhood Memories on YouTube: Episode #17: Part A: Favorite Childhood Memories on YouTube: https://youtu.be/4WIxl4gb48o Episode #18: Part B: Favorite Childhood Memories on YouTube: https://youtu.be/52WJKMY0sYY As I have shared before, Verbally Disastrous is on over 20 podcast platforms so you have options.  Here is the Spotify link with Episode #17: Part A & Episode #18: Part B- Favorite Childhood Memories: https://open.spotify.com/show/52xBe1cGlvu3YCCicEOfCj?si=0YrJ

Be Kind To Your Friend & Share A Beer.  You never know what they are going through. Hello Everyone, I am sharing a question (guess where?) where the person asks about another person's communication style. The person posing the question is trying to figure out why the person is returning later in life. It makes sense to question a person's motives for returning. I would wonder if they are coming back to borrow a cup of sugar or my lawn mower. All joking aside, I don't hold a grudge on anyone from the past reaching out to check in. After all, life takes us on many rides. We all have different experiences that pulls away a lot of time. Depending on where we are in the life cycle, that is an indicator as to how much spare time is available. When I was raising my sons, I was focused on them and not so much a social life. I felt like my day was consumed with work and managing my household. Any of my friends who are parents totally get what this grind is like.  I have

  Hello Everyone! I stumbled upon another odd question on Quora so I am sharing it with you.  My knee jerk opinion is this person asking the question is trying to figure out how to manipulate others and create a toxic relationship with the person they seek attention.  I then think about it for a bit.  Perhaps the person is in the midst of being a victim of manipulation.  The person is seeking feedback in order to help them review their relationship to determine if another person is in their head and why.  I know I have dealt with men who were indeed a narcissist who had manipulated their way into my life.  It is hard to shake a narcissist who sees you as valuable. Yes, I am aware the term narcissist is thrown around a lot on people. The people associate a person as a narcissist without being clinically diagnosed.  I believe that there are many people who walk the Earth harming people and dodging their proper diagnosis.  It is a total eye opener to intercept a partner's communicatio

Hello Everyone! I had previously shared with you my son Tom's Tswoooh23_ YouTube channel. Both of my sons Tom and Johnny play various PS4 video games and stream them while playing.  Both of the boys are awaiting the availability of the PS5 game system to come out.  I owe Johnny a PS5 from this past Christmas and his birthday.  Johnny wants to go skydiving with a friend very soon.  I also had passed over half the money for Tom's birthday and Christmas to him as well.  Despite being released mid November 2021, it was impossible to try to get the game before Christmas.  I have look and try to find the PS5 game system again for Johnny.  I would describe the game sessions as just like " bro hang time sessions ". Johnny is known as Johnboi on the game streaming sessions. Tom's cousin Vinny is known as Vinny Bonez .  The group energy ranges from chill to a very high energy smack talk.  Of course they talk trash to each other, place bets, and have other people in on t

Hello Everyone! I am sharing a question that I stumbled upon and responded. Are you reading my mind before I tell you that it was on Quora? If so, you are a good mind reader. I remember having a discussion about having nudes on the phone when Tom was in middle school. I told him to get rid of the picture even if it is offered by a young lady. Just admire and delete and don't even respond that you received the unsolicited photo. I told him it was child pornography and you do not want to get involved in any potential legal nonsense. The older a young man gets, the more tricky and sticky a situation can get. If an 18-year old young man gets caught with an underage picture on their phone, they can go to jail here in the United States. This can happen if you asked for it or not! I personally believe that ownership of the crime lies with the sender. Especially if it was not even requested. If a girl is doing it, she is seeking attention from the young man. Please don't f

  Hello Everyone! As I mentioned in my last post, I shared nine Mother's Day In Da Park videos from YouTube.  I also uploaded some other videos that I had done within the past week.  I walked past a McDonald's and shared an observation.  I also shared this very expensive Weber grill at Lowes.  Of course, I posted two videos of either Melissa or I pretending to be Daisy's voice. I am trying to use subtitles on my videos. I know there are viewers that can read English but have a tough time with listening to English. Therefore, I will try to add the subtitles to my videos. Let me know if this helps you or not?  I shared them on my Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel to get a laugh or two out of people.  Here are the recent, random YouTube clips: McDonald's Drive Thru video: https://youtu.be/k_KN_Ab5rgs Melissa as the voice of Daisy: https://youtu.be/tSKtlj1yRqM Leslie as the voice of Daisy: https://youtu.be/OVvzE_4NHyA You know that I try to be thankful to you for stop

  Hello Everyone! I spent the weekend hanging out with my favorite girl in the whole world Melissa.  We invited my other favorite pals Tara and Chris up for a Saturday BBQ.  Melissa and I scored a sweet deal on a gas grill then found a Weber charcoal grill at a tag sale.  We snatched that charcoal grill for $40.  We had a blast and I had an outer body experience by Saturday night.  By Sunday, Melissa and I did a Netflix and chill session.  I was nursing a bad stomach as well.  I am much better by Monday and was up to blogging and loading videos to YouTube.  Instead of going to dinner with the usual Mother's Day crowd and spending $100-200 bucks on dinner, I said let's go to the park instead.  We sort of had the park to ourselves so our dogs ran loose most of the time.  I had a better time, despite the extra work, chilling out in the park with my sons Tom and Jho.  Here are nine videos I took in the park that I put onto YouTube.  Hopefully, you will get a laugh or two out of the

Hello Everyone! I am thrilled to share that my trade sister, mentor, and boss Veronica Rose is on the NECA Innovation Overload Podcast!!  I found the podcast on Spotify and immediately followed.  Ms. Rose is the CEO of Aurora Electric here in Jamaica, New York.  Jamaica is in the borough of Queens in the City of New York.  I went to the main office today and she shared that she was on a podcast.  For anyone who doesn't know, the acronym NECA stands for National Electrical Contractor's Association.  Veronica is a proud union member for over 40 years and a union contractor with Local #3 IBEW.  I have made a few friends with some fellow trade women over the years.  I highly value my friendship with Veronica tremendously as a leader and a mentor.  She is always striving to push herself and she has encouraged me tremendously in the past 18-months to continue my safety training.  These are just a few nuggets that I know about Ms. Veronica.  I do not want to ruin it for you.  Go ahead

Hello Everyone! I have been busy over the weekend and the first few days of the week. I have to prepare myself for the upcoming Friday podcast session. I have two ladies coming on with Melissa and I to discuss the pros and cons of choosing to not have children. They are going to share their journey in life and why they made their choice. I am also scheduling Kyle and House, from Second Shift Radio on Tune In, to discuss their favorite childhood memories. I went out socialized on Saturday evening in lower Manhattan. I had an even better time than I expected. I dodged the rain on Sunday and did a BBQ in the park with my sons. I feel like that is more fun, despite the work, than sitting in a restaurant. I have some videos that I had taken from Mother's Day that I plan to load to YouTube this week. Our dogs Daisy and Otis were running around since the park was pretty empty. During my free time standing in line or waiting to pick something up, I will look on Quora to see if t