Quora Advice: Things People Think Yet Afraid to Talk About?

Photo Credit: https://oldpeakfinance.com/uncomfortable-truths/ Hello Everyone! Despite technically being a holiday Monday post Christmas, I'm here in the office holding down the fort on a chilly morning here in New York City. I genuinely hope you had an excellent Christmas weekend with your beloved family and/or friends. I had an excellent time with my family and friends over the weekend. I made the following Jell-O shots: 1) Screwball peanut butter whiskey & chocolate pudding 2) Lime Jell-O and vodka 3) cherry Starburst Jell-O and vodka 4) Blue Berry & Malibu Rum. I'm still working on sharing some more random blog topics. My latest safety topic of choice is on the evolution of the sidewalk shed. If you didn't check it out, go look for it in my list of blog posts. Before we dive into my attempt at interpreting another posed Quora question, allow me to share some links and updates on my other projects. My latest goal is to try and get back into releasing some more episodes on my Verbally Disastrous podcast. I initially thought I'd have some free time during the holiday weekends. I clearly missed the boat on Christmas weekend. Therefore, I shall try for this upcoming New Years holiday weekend. My established "$ugar Momma Baddie" themed clothing and accessory collection is available on both Spring and Shopify ecommerce platforms. Check out the two designs that you can choose from: 1) Feisty Lady Trio 2) Sugar Momma Bed. The "$ugar Momma Baddie" Shopify and Spring store links are down below in this Quora blog post. The links for the paperback, e-book, and now audio version for my first children's book that's entitled, "Not All Girls Play With Dolls" are also down below in this blog post. Both my first children's book and my #ConstructionTales book are available on Amazon, Barnes and Noble, iTunes, and Audible. The audio versions of both of my books can be found in four Audible markets that include: France, Dutch, U.K., and the United States. Now that I've wrapped up my "Leslie's book ad", let's review this latest Quora topic that I've chosen for you as the latest bathroom reading distraction. We are looking at things that people generally think about yet are afraid to talk about. What comes to mind for you?? Typically, I don't go in and read the other answers that were posed by other folks. However, I am intrigued to read about other responses to this question. The responses run the gamut with everything from sex to a person's physical qualities to a lack of motivation. I'm honestly searching for an unpredictable comment that I wouldn't even think about. I maybe saw one semi philosophical response that was a series of posed questions. When I read it, I imagined it was a series of rapid fire questions. The questions are all bouncing back and forth on the insides of the person's skull. I'm imagining it as being chaotic like a Looney Tunes cartoon. Go ahead and get into the posed question and my response below: POSED QUESTION: "What are some things which people generally thinks and are afraid to talk about that?" By- Important Life Lessons MY RESPONSE: "One of the things that people think about yet are afraid to speak upon would be uncomfortable truths. Are you on the giving or receiving end of the uncomfortable truth? Knowing this position helps in determining the level of fear. It is way harder to receive the uncomfortable truth versus dish out some painful truth. A person’s ego can be highly fragile and can only handle so much feedback at a time. There is a balance between sharing a round of constructive criticism versus systematically dismantling a person’s character flaws through a microscope lens. Too much uncomfortable truths can ruin that person’s self-esteem and sense of worth as a person. Even if the feedback is one hundred percent true, those kernels of truth do not take the sting of exposure away. I would imagine a person hearing bold face lies from a person, disguised as their “truth”, would not make it any more palpable. By exposing uncomfortable truths, you can’t remove it once it’s been said and hide it under the bed. When doing this type of exposure on another person, just know that you must be prepared to be exposed for your own flaws. It’s natural to unleash previously withheld feedback once you are faced with a sudden avalanche of uncomfortable truths. I believe that a person who doesn’t do that mutual reveal and absorbs the feedback is of a strong character and great discipline. When hearing uncomfortable truths, it’s always good to consider the source. Why is this person coming at me? It is always wise to hear the feedback and then give yourself a breather. Once in a calmer state of mind, it’s important to think about the main talking points. Are they worthy of doing self reflection and working towards taking action to change the behavior? If so, then be mindful of past behaviors and work on evolving, via adopting better patterns of behavior. If the feedback is just a bash fest, then just try your best to forget what was said. Apply some distance between yourself and the person making false and/or exaggerated accusations. The goal is to avoid even further feedback in the future. You can’t hit a moving target or one that’s at a distance. I wish you luck on your life path and much success! #ConstructionTales #NotAllGirlsPlayWithDolls #VerballyDisastrous" -By Leslie M. Jasper https://www.quora.com/What-are-some-things-which-people-generally-thinks-and-are-afraid-to-talk-about-that/answer/Leslie-Jasper-3?prompt_topic_bio=1 As I always say, feel free to share your position on this Quora topic. If your interpretation is very different from mine, share it down in the comment section. I"m always interested in your point of view. Don't forget to follow me at leslie_m_jasper on Tik Tok or Verbally Disastrous on YouTube. Share your feedback on my content down in the comment section at the bottom of the blog post. If you appreciate listening to podcasts, I encourage you to review my last (8) podcast episodes that are listed down below from The Verbally Disastrous Podcast, via links for Spotify & YouTube down below. If you are into reading on a Kindle, check out my newest short story release that belongs to my Construction Tales-Told By A Woman Kindle Vella Library short story series on Amazon down below. My last short story #11 is entitled, "Juggling Motherhood & Working With The Tools". This short story covers my life as a widowed, single mother in the era when I juggled both motherhood and my career as a journeywoman electrician. The previous short story is #10 is entitled, "Early Life Lessons & Characters To Meet As An Apprentice". If anyone has read any of my other previous short stories, let me know your thoughts? Feel free to go ahead and check out the many links for my book #ConstructionTales down below. It's time for you to either go back to to your pillow and blankets (damn it, I'm jealous) or go on with your holiday week schedule. Don't forget to return to my blog very soon so that I can offer you more bathroom break distraction reading. :P I wish you a great morning/afternoon/evening on your side of the globe and a restful or productive day! Shop "$ugar Momma Baddie" Feisty Lady Trio On Spring: https://im-my-own-ugar-daddy.creator-spring.com/listing/sugar-momma-baddie-feisty-lady Shop "$ugar Momma Baddie" Feisty Lady Trio On Shopify: https://im-my-own-sugar-daddy.myshopify.com/ "$ugar Momma Baddie" Sugar Momma Bed Logo:

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Audio Credit: Not All Girls Play With Dolls-Now On Audible!! Not All Girls Play With Dolls- Within The U.S. Market: https://www.audible.com/pd/B0BHX7L5GQ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-325164&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_325164_rh_us Not All Girls Play With Dolls- Within The U.K. Market: https://www.audible.co.uk/pd/B0BHX8WQ1C/?source_code=AUKFrDlWS02231890H6-BK-ACX0-325164&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_325164_rh_uk Not All Girls Play With Dolls- Within The France Market: https://www.audible.fr/pd/B0BHX86KS9/?source_code=FRAORWS022318903B-BK-ACX0-325164&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_325164_rh_fr Not All Girls Play With Dolls- Within The Dutch Market: https://www.audible.de/pd/B0BHX8BX6Q/?source_code=EKAORWS0223189009-BK-ACX0-325164&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_325164_rh_de Link To Construction Tales: Volume I: A Woman's Journey To Become An Electrician (Paperback & Kindle) On Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Construction-Tales-Womans-Journey-Electrician/dp/1467960160 Link To Construction Tales: A Young Person's Guide To Accomplish Anything In Life (Paperback & Kindle) On Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Construction-Tales-Persons-Accomplish-Anything/dp/1497593115 U.S.A.: Use This Link For The Audio Version Of My Book #ConstructionTales On Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/B07P5PNCS7/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-144253&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_144253_rh_us United Kingdom: Use This Link For The Audio Version Of My Book #ConstructionTales On Audible: https://www.audible.co.uk/pd/B07P5PP7RW/?source_code=AUKFrDlWS02231890H6-BK-ACX0-144253&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_144253_rh_uk France, Belgium, Switzerland: Use This Link For The Audio Version Of My Book #ConstructionTales On Audible: https://www.audible.fr/pd/B07P7RYP4G/?source_code=FRAORWS022318903B-BK-ACX0-144253&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_144253_rh_fr Germany, Austria, Switzerland: Use This Link For The Audio Version Of My Book #ConstructionTales On Audible: https://www.audible.de/pd/B07P8W3MVY/?source_code=EKAORWS0223189009-BK-ACX0-144253&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_144253_rh_de VERBALLY DISASTROUS PODCAST EPISODE LINKS: Here is the link to the Verbally Disastrous Podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2dFYgX4dUiHaMfJ4gigLY0?si=KcR-D8RyRnKGk1wuPOqa1Q&dl_branch=1 Verbally Disastrous! Season #1, Episode #43: Part A- Tramping In Cali! on YouTube: https://youtu.be/6XzVL9ybKHA Verbally Disastrous! Season #1, Episode #44: Part B- Tramping In Cali! on YouTube: https://youtu.be/TFDLB5talUo Verbally Disastrous! Season #1, Episode #45: Part C- Tramping In Cali! on YouTube: https://youtu.be/nYRVJNya0lU Verbally Disastrous! Season #2, Episode #46:Early Life Lessons & Characters To Meet As An Apprentice On YouTube: https://youtu.be/IcQ4-uGankA Verbally Disastrous Podcast! S#2, Ep. #47: Part A- Juggling Motherhood & Working With The Tools on YouTube: https://youtu.be/qWhf4lGmcXo Verbally Disastrous Podcast! S#2, Ep. #48: Part B- Juggling Motherhood & Working With The Tools on YouTube: https://youtu.be/wO8nXSRw7sU Verbally Disastrous Podcast- S#2, Episode #49: Just Released Not All Girls Play With Dolls!! on YouTube: https://youtu.be/go1FdOI5eYY Verbally Disastrous Podcast- S#2, Episode #50: My First 7 Weeks As A Site Safety Manager on YouTube: https://youtu.be/_DKA-q72dNw I shared my latest short story that has been loaded up to my Construction Tales-Told By A Woman Kindle Vella Library on Amazon. This is short story #11 entitled, "Juggling Motherhood & Working With The Tools". This short story covers my life as a widowed, single mother in the era when I juggled both motherhood and my career as a journeywoman electrician. I share the various challenges I faced and lessons learned along the way. The previous short story is entitled: #10: "Early Life Lessons & Characters To Meet As An Apprentice". I decided to write about some life lessons such as guarding your personal information, managing nasty rumors, combating sexual harassment, gender discrimination, and racism. Overall, the construction culture has improved dramatically over the past 25-years. Developing both a thick skin and a sharp tongue are key tools needed to survive various jobsite antics. I hope you learn something from this short story. There are more to come. These short stories are now also available as Verbally Disastrous podcast episodes. Construction Tales- Told By A Woman: (11) Kindle Vella Short Stories On Amazon!! https://www.amazon.com/kindle-vella/product/B096N8NSGM The Verbally Disastrous Store On Tee-Spring:

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